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So my question is, is it okay for me to set financial boundaries within my marriage?

And if so, how should I do that?

What does that mean?

Okay, back story. So over years ago, my husband unfortunately lost all of his finances due to someone

else handling slash mishandling for them, and mishandling his finances for him. Um, so he

initially had to start from square one all his finances received. Um, fast forward to now.

He's been trucking from trucking job to trucking

job and there's always been some type of issue with the lack of mile,

it's the lack of pay, the hours, truck breaking down all types of issues.

So due to him being a high income earner, um, in the past,

I think what he's doing is being extremely selective and picky, but what jobs he'll take.

So I'm basically trying to see how I can help and commit to just doing something like

soccer, back room, even entry, like something like that.

And so he's able to do the thing that he wants to do, which is trucking, just because it's been three years since he's had a secure and steady job,

and it just put a lot of financial stress on me.

So he's not making any money because he's not working much?

Yes.

Why is he not working much?

He's gone for jobs.

That wasn't what I said.

I said, why?

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