Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show - Should I Give My Kid an Allowance?
Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show
Slate Audio
4.4 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 11 September 2023
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
On this episode: Zak Rosen, Jamilah Lemieux, and Elizabeth Newcamp tackle two listener questions. First: How young is too young for an allowance? The question-asker’s 4-year-old really likes asking for things when they go to the store and she’s wondering if an allowance will help him learn the value of money. Second: How to make time for playdates, especially when both parents work and the weekend is pretty packed.
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends Curb Your Enthusiasm
Elizabeth recommends this fridge calendar
Zak recommends The Eyes & the Impossible by Dave Eggers
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| 0:32.4 | Welcome to Mom and Dad are fighting. Slate's parenting podcast for Monday, September 11. |
| 0:36.8 | I'm Zach Rosen. I host another show. It's called The Best It by Show. |
| 0:40.6 | And I am Dad Tenoa, who's six. And Tommy, who's going to be three really soon. We live in Detroit. |
| 0:47.5 | I'm Elizabeth Newkamp. I write The Homeschool and Family Travel Blog Dutch Dutch Goose. I'm the |
| 0:51.5 | mom of three littles, Henry, who's 11, Oliver, who's nine, and Teddy, who's six. We live in Tokyo, Japan. |
| 0:57.8 | I'm Jamil, I'm you. I'm a writer, a contributor to Slate's camp, |
| 1:01.3 | beating parents in column, and mom to Naima, who is 10, and we live in Los Angeles. |
| 1:08.2 | Today on the show, we have an interesting question about allowance. Our letter writer has had |
| 1:12.6 | a metaphor young child asking for things every time they go out. She's wondering if an allowance |
| 1:17.2 | might help. We've got some thoughts. Then we'll answer a very common but important question. |
| 1:22.2 | How do you balance life as a working parent? Then we'll wrap up today with a round of recommendations. |
| 1:27.6 | But let's start with our question. |
| 1:29.5 | Hi Mom and Dad are fighting. I would love to know your feelings about allowances. |
| 1:33.7 | My four and a half year old wants to buy all sorts of new things. Trucks, books, stuffies, |
| 1:38.6 | new clothes, and sometimes we'll treat him to new things, but he mostly gets presents for Hanukkah |
| 1:44.4 | and his birthday. It kind of makes me think that our kiddo might be ready for an allowance, |
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