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Hi. I, it seems kind of silly, and I'll try to keep this short, but I'm a pretty long-winded

talker. I know that. I am too. My ex and I, I'm 28. We got married when I was 24, you know, we did all the right things.

She got married.

We bought a house.

We got the toys to go along with it.

We had a daughter.

And he really struggled with alcoholism.

And because of her safety, I ultimately decided to leave.

He does not pay child support in our divorce. I said, you know,

200 bucks a month, I'll take care of it. You know, at that point I had been doing it by myself for

so long that I was like, you know, it really doesn't matter. My main thought at that time was,

I try to give him, I think, more grace than he probably should.

I wanted him to be able to get back on his seat.

He was living with his mom.

And, you know, the trucks that we had bought was $30,000.

We got a loan, put five down.

He owed 25 or we own 20 or owed 25. And I just got a statement

from them, and this has been a couple years now, that there is still $25,000 left. And so what

happens is he doesn't make any payments. They threatened to take it. He makes the big payment,

you know, to give him off his back. And I've talked to the lender and said, you know, what can I do?

And they're basically saying nothing unless he refinances, which has no interest in doing.

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