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Should I Care at All What People Think of Me?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2015

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Christ frees every believer from being overly concerned with what others think. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t care at all.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Today's question is from an international listener, dear pastor John, I'm Jera from the Philippines.

0:11.8

I always wonder if minding people's opinion about me is a good or bad thing.

0:16.8

The more I think about it, the more confused I get.

0:20.1

On one hand, I want to be thought of well by outsiders, 1st Timothy 3-7.

0:25.5

At the same time, I do not want to be paralyzed if others think I am a fool for following Jesus Christ.

0:31.7

That's 1st Corinthians 1-3.

0:35.0

And even to the extent of being considered like Paul, the scum of the world, 1st Corinthians 4-13.

0:43.3

So how do we think about our self-image in the eyes of the world?

0:47.9

I think the answer is that we should not go out of our way to offend the world unnecessarily.

0:56.4

And we should not be afraid of offending the world when necessary.

1:03.7

And we should put the emphasis on proactive good deeds that in general the world will find it hard to disapprove of.

1:15.6

That's my general answer.

1:17.6

But far more important than my general answer are the specificities of the Bible.

1:26.3

So let me do a quick little Bible avalanche.

1:30.8

1st concerning the importance of not giving offense to the world,

1:36.0

but wanting rightly to be respected by the world,

1:39.8

and then texts concerning the importance of believing and saying and doing things

1:47.2

that do in fact offend the world.

1:49.8

And we know they will offend the world because the Bible says they will and not wanting their God less approval who needs the God less approval of the world.

2:01.6

So those two groups of texts are very much intentioned.

2:05.6

So here they are and we need to hear them both.

2:09.3

Proverbs 221.

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