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Samantha, welcome to the program.

Hi, Dr. Laura. I have a dilemma about whether to bring up something to my husband that's been kind of on my mind.

And it was yesterday he said he was going to he we moved two years ago and his old job that he worked at a golf course he worked there for like 12 years and

they were coming down to golf with him yesterday. And so I knew about it. I was like great. And I'm sorry. Who's the day. Who's the day.

Yeah, I was just about to say two of them are gentlemen. One was his boss and the other guy is the head of food and beverage and then the other gal that came was is the head of human resources.

So they were all going to go golfing together at his new course got it got it.

Okay.

Okay. And then after they went golfing he texted me and he said, Hey, golfing went great. Now we're at this restaurant getting some appetizers. And I was like, cool, great. And then a while later he's like, Hey, is it okay.

Introduction. Introduction. Introduction. He didn't invite you to join in.

Yeah.

Oh, no, I mean, I think you knew I probably wouldn't want to I was home with the kid.

Oh, okay. Okay.

Yeah, I definitely wasn't a. I'm sure if I said, Hey, can I come you would have been like absolutely.

I was like, I'm going to go to the house to show them the house and I was like, Yeah, sure. Sounds good. And so they all came over and we were sitting down outside.

And I was like, you know, as they're hanging out, I was like, gosh, you think I just felt in my opinion, it was kind of out of character for him. He was just kind of being overly complimentary to the to the female that was there. And I had, I've heard about her over the years, but I'd never hung out with her. So this was my first time seeing her.

I was like, I'm going to be over complimentary. What was he saying? Sure. Um, they were, because I was kind of up and down, looking at the kids and so I would kind of come and go.

Just tell me what you heard him say. No peripherals. Just tell me I heard him say.

I was looking at pictures on her phone and she was like, Oh, you look so great. You look so great. And you were such a rock star today on the golf course. You did amazing.

And then, then I came down and he had been sitting in the seat. I was sitting in it's kind of like a cushiony seat.

I was like, Oh, sorry, I switched my seat. I just wanted to be closer to Stacy. And then I was like, okay, like that was kind of weird. Like I think he meant it jokingly, but I was just like, I don't know. It's just kind of add a character for him.

But I may be I'm blowing it out of proportion.

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