Should I Allow Her To Come Over When She Asks?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 6 May 2021
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
When you should allow a girl you’re dating to come over when she asks, if you’re worried about spending too much time together too soon.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work for over a year now. He’s dating a girl who is really into him who says that she’s addicted to him. She sometimes calls and wants to come over on short notice, and he’s unsure if he should allow it when they already have plans for the weekend. He’s concerned that if he sees her too much it will turn her off. He asks my opinion on what he should do and how to respond to her when she asks.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.4 | newsletter is going to be should I allow her to come over when she asks. |
| 0:11.2 | So I got an email, this is from a guy, he says he's been following me for about a year and this |
| 0:16.2 | girl he's been dating, he's been seeing her about once a week. |
| 0:19.1 | Obviously he's following what's in 3% man. I've |
| 0:22.2 | been noticed I'm kind of getting these questions and seeing these more in my phone sessions |
| 0:26.5 | lately for whatever reason. So I thought it was a good topic to go over. And so as I discussed |
| 0:32.3 | in the book, a guy, especially in the beginning when he starts dating a woman he doesn't |
| 0:37.1 | know, she doesn't |
| 0:37.7 | know him, maybe they met on a dating app or they met in person for a little bit. Typically, |
| 0:42.0 | what you want to do is go out on one date per week. Because the idea is you want to create |
| 0:47.3 | the conditions where you're kind of moving just a little bit slower than the woman is because |
| 0:53.3 | the reality is most guys are in a real rush. |
| 0:56.8 | They want to have multiple dates in the first week and they start treating a woman that they |
| 1:02.6 | just met like a girlfriend and they smother the girl and then she starts saying I'm confused, |
| 1:08.8 | we're moving too fast, she backs away and the next thing he knows he gets ghosted, he's thinking, what the hell? |
| 1:14.3 | We had a good time, we hooked up, and now she blew me off. |
| 1:18.3 | So the idea behind what's in the book is to help, because all of us have seen this same theme that's in the movies and TV shows, |
| 1:26.4 | that you better hurry up and lock her down |
| 1:28.4 | or some other dude's going to come along and rip her off and you got to take your time especially |
| 1:34.1 | when your emotions get involved and a lot of the phone sessions I see guys are just simply getting |
| 1:39.8 | involved with toxic women because they're projecting their fantasy onto these women and just hoping |
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