We're going to do something a little different today on the Fierce Marriage podcast.

We're going to process through in real time.

So often when we are thinking of content to share with you guys and things that might be helpful,

relevant to current events, to life, to maybe what God's doing in our lives, we've spent hours beforehand

processing through and writing our outlines, writing our rundowns, as we call them.

And you know what?

So many times I've just wished that we could hit record on the processing side because it helps

my heart so much to just think through, okay, what are the right questions to be asking?

What does scripture say?

What weight should it bear on our hearts in these areas?

And today the question we're going to process through is, is a husband entitled to or should he request slash demand?

However you want to phrase that, sex after a nice date.

Demand is a bad word.

It's important how you phrase it. So you can't just say however you want to phrase it because for the sake of the conversation, we have to phrase it the way that we are talking about. That's part of how we process through. How are we going to phrase it in a way it's not going to distract from the topic at hand? Because people on the internet go off the rails pretty quick if you just use the wrong word and you get the wrong tone across so here we are we're

gonna process through that we'll see you on the other side I feel like this is a

question that we've we've we don't struggle with it we process through it almost

always when we go on dates i feel like

and this we're having the conversation here today because yesterday we had kind of an extraordinary

date yeah we do it well we've tried to do it once a year but then of course COVID happened so

things kind of shut down and we were not able to do what we did which we'll tell you about in a

minute but yeah we try to spend you know once a quarter once a every once or

twice a year we do something that's more than just going out to lunch or you know and all-day

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