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Should a Gay Couple, Once Converted, Stay ‘Married’?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2019

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

The union of two men or women is not “gay marriage.” It’s no marriage. When they come to Christ, that former relationship has no binding authority.

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0:00.0

Today's question is one faced by a lot of pastors.

0:07.2

I know this because I see it frequently pop up in the inbox.

0:10.8

As people find Christ and are converted and are called to live differently than their

0:15.7

pre-conversion passions, this raises endless questions about living arrangements.

0:22.0

The question originates as a follow-up from a listener named Cameron, high-pastor John

0:26.2

in episode 920, divorce, remarriage, and honoring God.

0:29.9

You argue that people should stay in a second marriage, even though it was entered wrongly.

0:34.4

You said, quote, a prohibited relationship can become a consecrated and holy one.

0:43.2

My question is along this line.

0:45.3

Does this principle also hold to people in same-sex marriage relationships or in polygamous marriages?

0:51.5

Another conversion would you advise them to stay in similar relationships and somehow

0:55.6

consecrate them?

0:57.7

What makes those two scenarios different in your mind than divorce?

1:02.7

No.

1:03.7

I would not recommend that two men or two women living together practicing homosexuality

1:12.5

remain in that relationship.

1:15.6

The reasons are several.

1:19.3

The situations are different between a man and a woman entering a marriage.

1:26.2

They should not enter and a man and a man entering a relationship.

1:33.0

They should not enter.

1:34.3

Let me try to explain some of those differences, which would result in my decision not to

1:41.6

recommend that they stay there.

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