The Black Effect presents Family Therapy and I'm your host Elliot Connie.

Jay is the woman in this dynamic who is currently co-parenting two young boys with her former partner David.

David, he is a leader.

He just don't want to leave me.

But how do you lead a woman?

How do you lead in a relationship?

Like, what's the blue part?

David, you just ask the most important question.

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I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hey and it's just us, we're going to the short stuff. I'm Josh and there's Chuck and it's just us but we're going to do it. No everybody just calm down just the short stuff.

That's right I thought about getting one together about this topic because my daughter Ruby got the wind knocked out of her for the first time.

Oh no.

Couple of weeks ago and told me about it.

I wasn't there when it happened.

It happened at school and she said it was scary and I was like, hey listen,

kiddo, that happened to me I think she got hit in the chest or something but I when I

was young fell out of a tree about probably about I mean it wasn't super high but it was probably like seven or eight feet like directly on my back and got the wind knocked out of me really bad.

I think maybe the only time that's happened and it's, if you've never had it happen it's a very

panicky scary situation because you literally cannot get a breath you're just like

I wish people could see me now because I'm sort of silently freaking out.

But you cannot inhale or exhale for a very short period for a period of a few seconds

until you go and get your breath again finally but I was like what's

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