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SHITSHOW SATURDAY #174 - Our First Trauma Bonds

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 October 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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1:26.3

The first trauma bonds we ever knew.

1:30.7

Primary trauma bonds don't look all the same, but they all create similar wiring.

1:35.1

Love equals pain, closeness equals danger, and your nervous system learn to navigate and possible contradictions just to survive.

1:38.0

Let's break down some of the most common types.

1:40.6

The rage remorse cycle parent.

1:42.9

This parent erupted with rage, yelling, smashing things

1:45.9

sometimes worse, then apologized with tears, leaving you terrified yet craving the relief

1:50.1

that felt like love. You learn to dodge their anger, hiding your needs to avoid conflict,

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