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Shirley Washenko: He is The Way to Healing

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Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.86.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2026

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Shirley Washenko is a survivor of sexual abuse who now shares a powerful message of hope and healing for those who have endured similar trauma. Through her own journey, she has discovered that true healing is possible through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. On this week's episode, Shirley testifies that the peace and restoration she has found are worth every effort and that utilizing the Atonement of Jesus Christ has the power to bless generations.

3:04- Personal Testimony

7:16- Healing Doctrines 

12:24- What Is and Is Not Forgiveness

20:04- Healing Affects Generations

22:52- Digging Up the Past?

30:15- Agency and Physical Bodies

37:51- Alma the Younger

43:17- Approaching Stats Without Fear

47:13- Infuriating Unfairness

52:04- What Does It Mean To Be All In the Gospel of Jesus Christ? 

"You are worth it. You are worth healing and becoming your most divine, true, whole, complete self. You're worth speaking your story. Your voice really does matter. Your story really matters and your healing really matters." 

Links:

"Healing After Sexual Abuse"- https://www.deseretbook.com/product/P6078641.html?utm_source=ldsliving&utm_medium=blog&utm_campaign=13099-00001401&utm_id=13099 

"Infuriating Unfairness" talk by Elder Renlund: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2021/04/25renlund?lang=eng

Transcript

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0:00.0

Several years ago, a woman named Sage Williams was on this podcast.

0:05.0

She had recently been involved with organizing a symposium at Harvard called Faith and Flourishing,

0:11.0

Strategies for Preventing and Healing Child Sexual Abuse.

0:16.0

Since that interview, Sage Williams partnered with Shirley Wyshenko, a survivor of sexual abuse herself,

0:23.1

to author a book titled Healing After Sexual Abuse, a Latter-day Saint perspective.

0:29.6

Like me, you likely know and love people who have been sexually abused. In fact, the CDC reports that at least one in four girls and one

0:40.1

and 20 boys in the United States experience child sexual abuse. Nearly half of women and more than

0:47.3

one in six men have experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetimes. These statistics are significant and startling,

0:56.5

and I hope you'll take the time to listen not only to my conversation with Shirley on today's

1:02.2

episode, but also the previous episode with Sage Williams. As President Russell M. Nelson has been

1:08.9

quoted as saying, good inspiration is based upon good

1:12.5

information. And it is my belief that as we all become more informed about this topic, we

1:18.5

will be inspired as to how to protect our families and create change. Shirley Wyshenko is a survivor

1:25.8

of child sexual abuse. She grew up in a loving home and community in Orham, Utah.

1:31.3

After serving a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Taiwan, she married her husband, Steve Wyshanko.

1:38.3

They are the parents of two wonderful children.

1:41.3

Shirley received both her undergraduate and graduate degrees and piano

1:45.7

performance at Brigham Young University. She is the owner and founder of an online piano studio

1:51.8

that serves students globally. Shirley is passionate about helping survivors feel empowered

1:57.6

to write their own stories and contribute to the world in meaningful ways as they

2:02.0

embrace and live principles of healing through Jesus Christ. She believes in the power that

2:08.4

living these principles has and bringing healing to survivors, families, and communities.

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