She Was Hot For Me At First, Then Distant & Started Flaking

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy a woman will go from being hot for you to being distant & flaking on dates. In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a new viewer who was dating a woman for about 2 months. She was going to temporarily relocate to another state & they agreed to keep things casual until then. A few weeks later she went from being really hot and into him to being distant and flaking on dates. They were also arguing and bickering with each other.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:30.1	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's
0:35.5	newsletter is going to be, she was hot for me at first, then distant, and started flaking.
0:42.3	So this particular email, this guy's a new viewer, and he was dating a woman for about two months.
0:50.3	And I guess when they first started, I think you say it was like the fourth date.
0:57.9	She's like, oh, by the way, I'm going to move to New York for a few months.
1:04.6	And he's like, hey, well, we'll just take things casually, see what happens, which is the right approach.
1:06.8	It's kind of being indifferent.
1:08.4	Take it or leave it.
1:13.1	I'm happy to spend time with you while you're available and see what happens next. So she goes from being like really hot. He says she was she was super into him
1:20.1	and then she kind of becomes distant, starts getting kind of flaky, jerking them around.
1:26.4	And also on top of that, he was arguing and bickering with her. You know, even the short period of time they were together was like an old married couple. We've all seen we've probably got people in our family. They were like that. The couples are always like, sniping at each other. And, you know, only two months of dating and they're acting like an old married couple.
1:48.3	So one of the things I say in the book, men who understand women don't argue with them.
1:51.6	So obviously that's a glaring mistake.
1:56.9	Because whatever you make a woman feel when she's with you is what she's going to associate with being with you.
2:01.2	If you guys are bickering about little things and arguing and sniping at each other,
2:07.5	well, that's the vibe and the energy that she's going to get when she thinks of you. It's not the most attractive vibe. So love is always playful and fun. If you've got some differences or
2:15.1	you're bumping heads on things, then you've got to talk it out.
2:19.8	Hear her out, get her to explain herself, ladies first.
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