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Coach Corey Wayne

She Wants Time Apart To Forget & Reprocess Things, But Hasn’t Dumped Me

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6531 Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhat it means when your girl wants time apart to forget & reprocess things.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who got lazy and complacent and neglected his girlfriend for several years. Now she wants time apart to forget how poorly he treated her and maybe they can try again in the future once he gets his act together. They still talk every other day, but he acts like a checked out zombie and still isn’t fixing himself or courting her properly. He wonders what he can do to turn things around.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:05.8

newsletter is going to be. She wants time apart to forget and reprocess things, but hasn't dumped me.

0:13.7

So this particular email is from a viewer who, you can tell he got lazy, he got away from

0:19.2

what he learned in the book.

0:22.0

He quit his job without having another one lined up, then got on unemployment, and then just

0:29.2

kind of got lazy and neglected himself and neglected his relationship.

0:33.3

And it looks like his girlfriend was really patient and really put up with a lot of BS for a couple of years.

0:39.4

They were together three years total.

0:41.4

Things were good for about the first two years.

0:43.5

And then that's when he decided his job was stressing him out.

0:46.9

So you upped and quit.

0:47.9

He didn't have anything else lined up.

0:50.3

And on top of that, he would promise to do things.

0:52.5

He promised he's going to go over and see her, and he just would not follow through.

0:57.0

And so now they're, after she said she wanted space, that was like back at the end of November.

1:02.7

Last time they saw each other was beginning of December, but he says, hey, we're still in contact every other day.

1:08.5

But it looks like she's reaching out, and he's not arranging any get-togethers and

1:12.6

it just looks like the dude is like checked out like he's just a zombie. He's not fixing himself,

1:18.8

definitely not courting her properly. And so he's kind of in limbo. And so this is kind of like

1:25.3

an email where you just see it's like learned helplessness.

1:29.5

And he's just, you got to participate in your own rescue.

1:32.3

It's like he's waiting for somebody to come save him and fix him.

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