"She Told Me To Shoot Myself!"
The 9941 Podcast
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4.9 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 September 2024
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we tackle a deeply personal question from Kyle, who's facing significant challenges in his marriage. He shares his heartbreaking experience of his wife saying hurtful things like, "I hate you" and "go shoot yourself," while also expressing love and regret the next day. Kyle wonders whether it's okay to consider divorce, especially with his children in mind, despite his deep love for his wife and his belief in staying married.
We discuss the complexities of his situation, offering a biblical perspective on marriage and divorce. We emphasize the importance of community support and reconciliation, especially within the context of a Christian marriage. We also explore the internal contradictions Kyle is facing—wanting the best for his children, loving his wife, and working on himself.
Join us as we provide encouragement and advice on how to approach these difficult decisions, with the ultimate goal of seeking healing and reconciliation wherever possible. Join us to answer this question and more on today’s podcast!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the show. |
| 0:02.0 | What we're going to do here is answer some questions. You email us, |
| 0:16.1 | podcast at GrangerSmith.com. We answer them like we're riding in the truck together like we're |
| 0:21.6 | sitting around a campfire you say hey man I got |
| 0:23.2 | this thing it's been going on can you help me with it I got an man with me producer of the |
| 0:28.1 | show and one of my best friends yeah what's up ant? good to see you man. You too. There we I don't know a lot about these |
| 0:35.4 | questions that that people have sent in for today's show but I do know enough |
| 0:39.6 | that there is there's a bit of a theme going on there is and so we'll see how that |
| 0:43.4 | unravels it's funny it wasn't on purpose too so I read through these and and put them in |
| 0:47.4 | in what we call an R. O.S this is a run a show for for these for you and I'm not thinking about answering them necessarily when I'm putting them together. |
| 0:56.2 | I'm thinking about this would be a good one to hear from Granger on and and then I could |
| 1:00.0 | stay here and talk to you about them so I can read them and rethink you know about them so |
| 1:03.7 | yeah so let's see if we can unravel this theme the the first question here comes |
| 1:10.0 | from Kyle it says hey Granger I'll get right into it. My wife and I haven't been |
| 1:14.9 | getting along lately. She says things like, I hate you and go shoot yourself and that she wants a divorce. Me personally I don't believe in divorce I love her with all of my being |
| 1:27.8 | but her being so mean takes a toll on me. Usually the day after she says how much she loves me and that she |
| 1:36.0 | doesn't want to split up, but it always comes back. We did marriage counseling, |
| 1:40.6 | three sessions and she quit. I ended up going back by myself because I'm trying to better myself. My question is do |
| 1:47.9 | you believe it's okay to file for divorce because of the way I'm being treated? |
| 1:52.1 | I just want what's best for my children. |
| 1:55.0 | Thank you for your time. |
| 1:56.0 | Sorry, this is really hard to talk about Kyle from Ohio. |
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