She Tells Me To Date Other Girls, But I Only Want Her
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 19 July 2023
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
The proper mindset needed to get the girl you really like when she wants to only be casual and unattached.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work. About 2 months ago he started dating a younger girl from the office who just broke up with her boyfriend. Things got serious really fast, but then she backed off and told him to date other girls several times as she was dating other men. The problem is that he is already emotionally attached and only wants her. She is keeping her options open while he blew off the other women he was dating to only focus on her. He asks what he should do to become her priority.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.9 | newsletter is going to be, she tells me to date other girls, but I only want her. |
| 0:12.2 | Well, I got an email. |
| 0:13.4 | This is from a guy who he's new to my work, so obviously he came here after he'd kind of already |
| 0:19.8 | screwed up. |
| 0:20.9 | And so he's trying to turn things around. |
| 0:22.5 | And so this is a really good email for, because he's got a couple wrinkles in this situation. |
| 0:29.0 | Number one, it's a hot younger girl from work from the office, which can be dicey. |
| 0:36.4 | And so in those kinds of instances, |
| 0:38.0 | it's always best to let the woman do most of the pursuing |
| 0:41.8 | and the contact initiation, |
| 0:44.0 | especially in the initial dating stages, |
| 0:47.2 | because what if you're wrong? |
| 0:49.0 | What if you overread or overrate her attraction to you. |
| 0:54.6 | And then you go and you hit on her, it doesn't go off well, you're totally wrong. |
| 1:00.0 | And in this world, the Me Too era, that can create problems for us guys. |
| 1:05.8 | So in this particular case, if you've got a girl that's expressing interest, |
| 1:10.1 | you got to let her do most of the |
| 1:11.4 | pursuing and make your moves, obviously outside of work, maybe at a company after a company happy |
| 1:17.3 | hour and most of the people have left and it's just you and her, those kinds of things. Because |
| 1:22.0 | when a woman likes you, she's going to put herself into your orbit to make it easy for a seduction to happen. |
| 1:29.8 | And so the other wrinkle that we got is she just, when they started working together, |
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