She Stayed With a Murderer.. And I Kind of Got It
Don't Think with Carla Bezanson
Dear Media
4.9 • 547 Ratings
🗓️ 14 May 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever stayed after something you swore would be the final straw? same. this one’s about trauma bonds, attachment, denial and the netflix documentary “Should I Marry a Murderer?"
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a Dear Media production. |
| 0:13.1 | What's up you guys? |
| 0:14.2 | Welcome to this week's episode of Don't Think, the podcast for anyone who has a brain |
| 0:18.6 | that never shuts the fuck up. |
| 0:20.8 | And I'm here in Dear Media Studio today. |
| 0:23.0 | As you can see, if you're watching, which you should be, go on YouTube and watch |
| 0:25.9 | because it's beautiful here. |
| 0:26.9 | It's much nicer than my windowless room in my apartment where I hung up curtains with |
| 0:33.2 | thumbtacks to try to create some sort of studio. |
| 0:35.8 | So I was just blessed to get to meet my producer in person for the first time. He's here today. And he just told me in conversation that like he doesn't think, like just casually in conversations. I don't really think. I'm like, this is the most ironic conversation we could have |
| 0:54.2 | in this room right now about to record the podcast. Don't think. I'm like, you're living my dream. |
| 1:00.7 | If I could not think for even an hour, I would feel like the luckiest fucking person in the entire world. |
| 1:05.0 | And he's just like, no, I can have thoughts if I want to. I'm like, that's perfect. I can't not have thoughts if I want to. |
| 1:14.5 | So anyway, on that note, here we are. Really cool to be in the studio today and to meet some of the |
| 1:20.3 | people that I've only been seeing on camera for a long time. See their heights. See if they're, |
| 1:26.0 | you know, as tall as they're reading. But yeah, it's |
| 1:29.2 | fun. And I'm excited because I have a couple episodes. I'm batching a few episodes today. And |
| 1:35.1 | there's a lot of things to talk about. Okay? Something has graced my presence this last week. |
| 1:41.2 | Really, really, really. If you haven't watched this show yet, I want you to go, |
| 1:47.0 | like, right in this moment, just cancel anything that you have going on today. Really, |
| 1:51.6 | nothing is important. I don't care if it's work. You can miss your grandpa's funeral. It's |
| 1:55.5 | going to be fine. You need to watch this show. It's called Should I I marry a murderer? It's possible you've already |
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