Welcome to Call Your Girlfriend! A podcast for long-distance besties everywhere.

I'm Amina Tussaud. And I'm Anne Friedman. Today's agenda is a heavy one. I'll be honest,

an important one. We are talking about She Said, which is the new book by

Jody Cantor and Megan Tui, who are reporters, post-surprise winning reporters at

The New York Times. And about some other things that have been in the news lately

related to men behaving badly.

Hi, Anne Friedman. How you doing over there? I'm doing pretty good. I've started packing for tour,

so I'm just the house is a mess. I love the advanced packing game. And also because I don't

want to call you out here, but last tour, do you remember how many things you had with you?

I don't want to talk about it, Anne. I have this photo. I was not feeling well. Okay, don't put

me on the spot. You weren't feeling well. But that's not explained. That's a not explained. Okay,

like I cannot, I did not share this photo on the internet because I did not want to shame you,

but you had this tote bag that is bigger than any tote bag I've ever seen. And it was all full

of like products. It was full of toiletries. Listen, my skin is very important, but also

you're right. It was a classic overpack. But the thing that you're not telling the people,

Anne, is that I am a notorious underpacker. And so that's why it also seemed very dramatic.

That's true. You weren't feeling well at the beginning of last year's tour and that only

confirmed it. And the fact that you are meticulously planning what you are packing for this tour

makes me feel that all is right in the world. Yes, all is right in the world. I won't show up with

my entire bathroom in a suitcase. Oh my god. If you would like to come see us on tour, which we

highly encourage, we still have tickets available in a couple of cities in Toronto, Detroit, and Denver.

There are still some seats open. You can go to callyourgirlfriend.com slash tour to get your tickets

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