She Said It Wasn’t A Good Idea To See Each Other Again
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 6 June 2026
⏱️ 16 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.7 | newsletter is going to be. She said it wasn't a good idea to see each other again. Usually when |
| 0:12.7 | women say things like that, it's kind of like a test. In other words, their interest is kind of low, |
| 0:18.5 | but your response to it and being direct and decisive and coming back |
| 0:24.4 | with something like well I think it's a great idea to get together especially |
| 0:27.4 | when it's an act or somebody used to date I don't think it's a good idea we get |
| 0:31.5 | together it's like we should definitely get that we haven't seen each other in |
| 0:33.8 | forever and we always have fun what your schedule like you just go right into being |
| 0:38.1 | direct and decisive and that could be enough from a woman who's hesitant to like okay and then she goes |
| 0:44.4 | out and she has a really good time with you and then you know poking up again and then the then her |
| 0:49.3 | attitude changes her vibe changes so it's important to respond the right way to give yourself the best possible chance to get together. |
| 0:58.0 | But the flip side is you don't want to go trying to twist the girl's arm if she really doesn't want to see you. |
| 1:04.0 | So like in this case, this guy, he only read the book once, started doing well with this girl that he met right around |
| 1:10.9 | that time or right after, never went back to the book. |
| 1:15.4 | They dated, things were a little rocky because he didn't really know the book, then she |
| 1:19.5 | moved away for a year which it seems like he kind of encouraged her to do. |
| 1:24.1 | And then recently she just moved back to town. |
| 1:26.6 | He's like in college and I think she moved away for a job or something like that. And he said we should get together and for drinks and catch up. And she says, oh, I don't think that's a good idea. And so he sends us to play by play and ask what he should do and what it means. He's wondering, does she just test me? |
| 1:45.0 | I mean, it clearly means her interest isn't super high. |
| 1:47.2 | She's not like, hell yeah, I'd love to see you. |
| 1:49.6 | But it's more of she dated him for a while, her feelings, |
| 1:53.6 | because again, it was like a year ago, have leveled off. |
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