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Coach Corey Wayne

She’s Torn Between Me & Another Guy What Should I Do?

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 27 September 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhat you should do if a woman is torn between you and another man.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 19 year old viewer who has been long distance with his now ex girlfriend for a year. She started casually seeing and dating another guy and cheated on him. They broke up and are still in contact. She says she’s torn between him and the other dude. He wants her back despite the betrayal.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's

0:05.6

newsletter is going to be she's torn between me and another guy. What should I do?

0:13.9

Well, this particular email is from me. He's a young guy. He's obviously a little delusional about

0:19.8

the situation and so he's 19 and he'susional about the situation.

0:26.6

And so he's 19, and he's been a long distance with his girlfriend for about a year.

0:30.1

And she's clearly not loyal. So she started seeing and dating another guy basically and cheated on him.

0:35.3

And then she said that she wanted to be with the other guys. So they broke up.

0:40.0

They're still in contact. But she says she's torn between him and another guy. And he wants

0:46.1

her back despite the betrayal. So if you're this young and your girl just decides to start

0:53.0

dating and sleeping with somebody else,

0:54.8

even though she made a commitment to you, well, she's not obviously loyal.

1:01.4

And that's who she is.

1:03.9

As Maya Angelou said, when somebody shows you who they are or tells you who they are,

1:08.4

believe them the first time.

1:10.5

You're not going to fix her. You're not going to fix her.

1:12.2

You're not going to make her loyal. If you take her back, that validates that her behavior is

1:17.3

totally acceptable to you and other men. And obviously the guy she's involved with knew, I would

1:23.8

assume, that she had a boyfriend, but he didn't care. He was focused on the fact that he wanted her.

1:29.5

And he probably was white knighting and thinking,

1:32.4

ah, I'm going to save her from this boring, unhappy relationship.

1:36.7

And I'll show her what a great guy I am.

1:38.5

And so now she's, I guess, kind of with him, but they're still talking.

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