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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

She's Out, He's Still In.

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness

4.715.6K Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

After 20 years together, they wonder if their marriage has run its course? She is too unhappy to stay together and doubts if she ever felt true passion for him. He is holding onto the relationship for the both of them and refusing to truly hear her. Esther explores his desire for hope and her desire for change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Just say it, I don't care.

0:02.0

Like the last time?

0:04.0

Yeah.

0:05.0

Yeah, well the last time he had sex.

0:06.0

He was so happy.

0:08.0

I told her, I loved her and I said, you know, let's just try again and

0:12.0

apparently she closed the bathroom door and then sat in there and cried.

0:19.6

None of the voices in this series are ongoing patients of Esther Perel.

0:24.2

Each episode of where should we begin is a one-time counseling session.

0:28.0

For the purposes of maintaining confidentiality, names and some identifiable characteristics have been removed, but their voices and their stories are real. Did you know temperature has a big impact on how you feel?

0:47.0

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0:51.1

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0:56.0

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1:17.0

Are you ready to take control of temperature? Go to Ember Labs.com and enter code Esther, that's e-s-T-H-E-R at checkout for an additional 10% off your order. I'm Jonathan Goldstein and on this season of heavyweight, the search for a beloved parrot who's been missing for over 20 years,

1:29.0

a man shot by his coworker in an Idaho motel motel room and an artist who can't stop painting his ex-wife.

1:37.0

This is madness, it's crazy. I understand, I know.

1:40.0

If I present my portfolio in a mental institution, they will welcome me.

1:44.8

Listen to the new season of heavyweight on Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. My wife of 15 years recently revealed to me that she doesn't feel the same way that she once did about me.

2:07.0

I've never felt romantic feelings towards him in a grand way and there hasn't been much effort over the years.

2:17.0

I know that I have loved her

2:19.8

getting immensely since I met her,

2:21.6

but I didn't ever really feel a lot from her.

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