She’s Not Your Enemy :: Jenn Schultz [Ep 448]
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🗓️ 22 January 2024
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
One ruler we often reach for is comparison. Sometimes comparisons are helpful tools we can use to evaluate our processes or methods. But we’ve all seen comparisons go wrong. Who hasn’t thought, “I’m not like her. I must be less than”?
Comparison isolates. It causes us to withdraw from our community or to put up perfect-looking walls that keep people out. My guest this week is recovering comparison-chaser, Jenn Schultz.
Her new book, She’s Not Your Enemy, shows us the root of the problem isn’t how we are different from one another, it’s that we don’t truly know who we are. Armed with the knowledge of who God made us to be, we are free to celebrate other women and build God’s kingdom together.
Connect with Jenn Schultz:
- Website: https://jennschultzauthor.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennschultzauthor
- Instagram: @jennschultzauthor
- Podcast: Called Into Being @calledintobeing
- She’s Not Your Enemy: Conquering Our Insecurities So We Can Build God’s Kingdom Together by Jenn Schultz
- Inner Healing Prayer :: Jennifer Barnett [Ep 323]
- Psalm 103
- Romans 8
- Ephesians 1
- Be Vulnerable, Find Your People :: Jennie Allen [Ep 354]
- Move From Comparison to Compassion :: Karen Ehman [SOM Wk 5]
- Sidetracked with Fall, Homecoming and Sibling Conflict :: Cynthia & Heather [Ep 432]
- Find links to this week’s sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all welcome back to the don't mamaloon podcast I'm your host Heather McFadian and this is the place where I get to walk |
| 0:13.5 | alongside you and connect you with people and resources so you know that you don't |
| 0:18.2 | mom alone and in this episode number 448 I'm welcoming to the show Jen Schultz. It's not |
| 0:26.7 | really me versus her it's really me versus me I'm getting in my own way |
| 0:30.6 | when it comes to these relationships because I don't have a clue who I am. |
| 0:35.6 | I have so many insecurities which are not a bad thing. |
| 0:39.1 | I was asking like really important questions like do I belong, am I important, |
| 0:45.0 | questions, like do I belong, am I important, |
| 0:44.4 | and I loved, am I valuable, you know, |
| 0:46.7 | these questions that were all kind of asking, |
| 0:49.4 | but I was looking to other people |
| 0:51.0 | to get the answers to those questions instead of going back to God, |
| 0:54.3 | going back to the one who is qualified to answer those questions for me. |
| 0:59.0 | How do you measure yourself? |
| 1:01.0 | How do you decide if you are succeeding or failing in parenting, marriage, friendship, life? |
| 1:09.0 | One ruler we often reach for is comparison. |
| 1:13.8 | And sometimes comparing can be helpful. |
| 1:16.2 | It can help us evaluate our processes or our methods, but often, like we've heard the quote, |
| 1:22.4 | comparison is the thief of all joy, things go wrong. |
| 1:26.6 | We think things like, why am I not like her? |
| 1:29.8 | Why am I less than? |
| 1:31.2 | Why is this hard for me? it's easy for her? And what I've noticed is not only |
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