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Paul welcome to the program.

Good afternoon, Dr. Laura.

Thank you for taking my call.

Thank you.

My, I guess my complaint is my circumstance for which I am probably at least partially

responsible. So just to sort of thumbnail the situation for you in a 22 year marriage, 25 year relationship. We produced one awesome son and I had

picked up recently some verbal and nonverbal distancing on the part of my wife and a few

months ago I asked her, you know, are you happy or you know, do you love me and the answer was I married you didn't I?

And and I thought well, you know, that's a really, that's a non-answer.

There's probably something underneath that response, but I just wanted to give it some time and space so I didn't do anything more about it and then about another month went by which is just now a couple of weeks ago and I could sense the same unhappiness I guess and I asked

her flat out if she loved me and I could too she was stumbling around to answer and I said look just be

honest with yourself so you could be honest with me I can take it whatever the

answer is and she she said, well, quote, I love you,

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