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We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're going to read this one right here, right now, and you never know it could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here it is. Strawberry Letter. All right, nephew, thank you. Subject, she may have changed too much for me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 59-year-old single man,

and I've been divorced for two months. As soon as the divorce was final, I called my ex-girlfriend

to tell her that it was cool to call me again. I told her all about the drama with my divorce,

and she told me that she's been focusing on herself and hasn't been dating.

She got a divorce two years ago, so she was excited by the possibility of us getting back together.

She lives about two hours away, so I was eager to see her.

She explained to me how she's not the woman I used to know.

She told me she's on a health kick and she enjoys yoga and hiking.

I can't imagine this woman working out or going for long walks, but I was interested

to see how I could fit into her new lifestyle.

I would love to be more athletic since I'm getting an old man body from the stress and bad eating after my divorce.

So I went to visit her as a surprise.

The old Trina that I knew loved surprises, but she was not happy when I told her I was in her

city.

She made me wait until the next day to see her.

When we met for breakfast, she was unrecognizable.

She had been on a weight loss medicine and she wears her hair in a short, curly afro type of style.

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