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Subject, she gives a great performance.

Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating a very attractive woman with the

perfect body and beautiful brown skin. I met her at a gym and she asked me out, which I loved

because she is not afraid to go after something if she wants it. We have been dating for a little

over a month and we finally had sex over the Labor

Day holiday. I wasn't expecting the performance I got. She's very athletic and it was hard to

keep up with her in the bedroom. I was given all kinds of instructions and she was very dominant.

I tried to get into it and each time I got so distracted

by her demands I couldn't perform. I was intimidated. Finally, after it was over, we went on to my patio

and had a glass of wine. She started analyzing the encounter and saying what could have been better and what we needed to work on.

I felt like I was back in college playing football and going over the game footage and critiquing it.

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