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Subject, she gave me more than I bargained for. Dear Stephen Shirley, I need your help on how to resolve a big mess with one of my girlfriends.

I have a non-profit organization for homeless women, and I provide clothing and toiletries for the ladies.

I've been using part of my living room to sort donations.

An old friend of mine recently lost weight and donated her old clothes to my organization.

I went by her house to pick up the items,

and I was happy to see that she had two big black garbage bags full of clothes.

My trunk was already full, so she put the two bags on my back seat.

As I drove home, I noticed something flying around the car.

I pulled over to see what it was and I was grossed out

when I saw it was a big brown roach on my back seat. I didn't know how it got in there, but I live

in a humid city, so it could have crawled in from the outside. I went on home and put both

bags in my living room and I opened the bags

to peek inside, then got distracted by the phone ringing. I went back into my living room a few

minutes later to find a roach crawling on the windowsill and another roach crawling on the mirror.

I was so startled and grossed out, but I managed to get a cell phone video of the bugs.

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