She Didn’t Feel Safe & Ditched Me On Our Date
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 15 May 2026
⏱️ 11 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.8 | newsletter is going to be, she didn't feel safe and ditched me on our date. Well, obviously, |
| 0:12.4 | that is suboptimal. So this particular email, this guy met a girl on Bumble. The date seemed to be |
| 0:20.2 | going well, and then he invited her to go have fun. |
| 0:24.8 | He's like, hey, let's get out of here. And she didn't know what he had in mine. And she's like, |
| 0:30.3 | what are we going to do? And she's like, we're going to go have fun. So he's not like really |
| 0:34.1 | telling her what they're going to do or where they're going to go. He's like, just follow me. |
| 0:37.7 | Trust me, bro. |
| 0:39.5 | Which women got to feel safe and comfortable. |
| 0:42.1 | If you're going to drive somewhere and so he wanted to go bowling next, |
| 0:46.5 | but he didn't want to tell her where they were going. |
| 0:50.0 | And then on top of that, so he like starts driving through a really bad part of town on his way to where the bowling alley is, which happens to be close to where she lives because she said, well, as long as it's near my house. |
| 1:02.2 | But like I said, on the way there, he turned one way because it's in a bad neighborhood. |
| 1:07.6 | And she's like, where's this guy taking me? |
| 1:10.2 | And then she goes the other way and just basically says, I'm going home. And so he tries to save it. He's like, hey, we're going but bowling. Here's the address. And she's like, no, you can hit me out, but we can go some other time. So he's all kind of bummed about that. But it's just, it brings up a point. You got, women got to feel safe and |
| 1:28.3 | comfortable with you. If it's a girl you know from work, you met through mutual friends, or maybe |
| 1:33.6 | you spent a half hour, 45 minutes talking to, or an hour, maybe you met at a party or some kind |
| 1:37.9 | of function. So you had plenty of time to create rapport. Maybe you got mutual friends in common. |
| 1:43.1 | In those cases, more often than that, you're going to go pick her up. |
| 1:46.4 | But if you're doing online dating, you understand this girl doesn't know you and when you |
| 1:49.9 | start acting a little shady, that's going to freak a girl out, which is basically what this |
| 1:54.6 | guy did. |
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