She Comes First with Ian Kerner!

Sex Nerd Sandra

Sandra Daugherty

Sexuality, Comedy, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2014

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

FOR THRILL SEEKERS AND COMFORT CREATURES! Sandra fangirls out over Ian Kerner Ph.D, MFT, sex therapist and author of the bestselling oral sex book, "She Comes First." They explore the myriad reasons why the book hits home, how to create a sex space that helps our minds deactivate and surrender, the link between female arousal and stress, and a refreshing perspective on porn. TOPICS: Unbearable Lightness of Being, Fruity Book Covers, Written for Men, Women Fans, Strunk & White, Philosophical Approach, Sexual Cripple, Satisfying Women, Intercourse Discourse, An Alternative Path to Pleasure, From Tormented to Joyful, Deconstruction, "Cunnilingus Class," Nina Hartley, A Modest Approach, Mental Deactivation, Fantasizing During Sex, Seduction, Theory of Courtship, Physiological vs Mental Aspects of Sex, Safe Space for Fantasy, Core Erotic Themes, Jack Morin, Esther Perel, The Paradox of Cozy & Thrilling, Analysis as Inhibiting Arousal, and finally the Pros and Cons of Porn Usage.

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0:14.4	know that this is extremely not safe for work so be careful because there will be
0:19.0	naked people immediately like immediately when you type this in. So pop porn is actually a really funny site. I could read the script that they gave me, but honestly I did, I have been offered different advertisers for this show and I have turned down some because I didn't think it was
0:38.7	Ethical or I didn't think it was high quality or I just it just didn't sit right with the message of the show and so when I was
0:46.2	presented with a porn site I was like okay well let's let's take a look and I
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0:54.7	They do have an adult video section.
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1:01.4	which I was curious about is rather funny and not
1:04.6	disrespectful they don't they don't feel the need to be disrespectful to anyone in
1:08.6	order to be funny which I think is powerful and brave and important as a voice in the sex industry field.
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