Where is my G-spot?

And how come none of my exes have been able to find it?

Like, where is on the treasure map?

It's Bila Benson, your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but need

welcome to almost adulting.

Almost adulting.

Are you ready?

I don't know if you noticed, but recently I feel like there's been a trend for a while where people make jokes about spitting spit in my mouth.

I want you to spit in my mouth and all that.

I've never been into that and I always get nervous when I start dating someone if we're about to have sex or they're going to try to spit on my mouth or on, because it's not my thing. Unless I haven't met the right guy who turns me so on that I want to get spit in my mouth. Yeah. But A, are you into that trend? What's up with that trend? What is that? I think it's probably from porn. I think people probably saw it in porn. TikTok. I'm not, exactly. It's more like TikTok.

But I'm honestly like what, no, unless you're into it, you could even say if someone does that, you could say, well, I'll spin your mouth. But I don't even want to. No, but I don't, I don't want to do it either. I don't, I think it's just, maybe it's a dominance thing. I think that people are probably saying yes to it and And I might be wrong here because if you saw it in TikTok, it's from TikTok. If you saw it on TikTok, like, I'd love to know, like, I don't mean this necessarily means that you should do it. But what I want to understand is like, is it a turn on? It doesn't make you feel like someone's dominating you, like just to say yes to them because you're submissive in the bedroom. So you literally are like, you could spit on me, you could step on me, you could whatever, and it's a turn on. I'm not going to yuck anyone's yom, if that's something that turns you on. But I think it's just like anything that trends with sex makes me uncomfortable. Okay, so here's what. We both are not into getting someone to spit in our mouth,

but we may have a partner that's into it. So how do you not, how do you avoid kink shaming someone?

Because there's nothing wrong if you like it. How do you avoid kink shaming someone?

But also, how do you then talk to your partner about the kinks that you're into without feeling embarrassed?

Well, a great way. First, I think that in the moment you could just say, oh, I'm, you kind of could say slow down and say, oh, God, you know, I'm just, I'm really not, I'm not into that right now. And you kind of have to smile.

Like our first instinct is to shut down and be like, no.

What are you doing?

Why are you trying to, oh.

And then we shut down the whole experience.

But it's a practice to learn to like just like, oh, you know what?

I'm not really into that. What are you doing? Why are you trying to, oh, and then we shut down the whole experience, but it's a practice

to learn to like, just like, oh, you know what?

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