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Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 50-year-old married man, and my wife and I have been married

for 11 years.

When we got married, I was working on my doctorate degree, and I worked full-time and struggled

to take care of her and our newborn child. She decided to start

school herself after having our second child. She got her master's degree in 2019, and I expected

her to apply for a job, but instead she decided to get her doctorate degree. This led to more financial stress in our family. The little

I made barely covered rent and the financial strain was great. I had to take side hustles just to make

ends meet and I think this led to a change in attitude for both of us and we we began snapping at each other over the tiniest things.

I began to think of what to do to improve our situation, and finally, by the grace of God, I got a great job.

I figured it would improve our marriage, but things got worse.

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