This is Hidden Killers with Tony Brewski.

Here now, Tony Brewski.

So let's go over to that next voicemail and her rage now going that way, not to I hit you,

but she's trying to rationalize something else took place here.

John, I'm here with your fucking kids.

Nobody knows what a funky the fucking pervert.

I'm here with your effing kids.

Nobody knows where you are, you effing pervert.

Nobody knows because nobody's been notified that nobody knows where he is.

The only person who doesn't know where he is is is her.

So, that being said, the fact that she jumps over to trying to rationalize this, trying to find some other thing that he's doing

rather than deal with what she just did to him. And again, you got a 0.27 blood alcohol level. You might be going in and out of

remembering what you have done. What's your take thus far as we're working through that?

Well, that's where you get into what is probably the interactional pattern and the

interactional style. And from the alcohol, she's not filtering.

She's not pausing to consider. Is this a reasonable assumption that he's out having sex with

someone right now and he's he's a pervert? You know, this is an old story that she has been telling herself probably for ages in this relationship.

Mm-hmm.

And very much projecting, too, because in reality, she's the one who's sending text messages to

his friend, inviting him over to have sex.

So naturally, John must be doing the same, right?

That's what seems to be going in her mind.

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