The people that we choose not to forgive, they don't care.

Okay?

And most of the time they don't even know.

We don't forgive someone because they deserve it.

And we're not saying that what they did isn't wrong.

What we are saying is we're going to give the burden of justice to God

and we are going to be free.

Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Ann Wilson.

And I'm Dave Wilson and you can find us at FamilyLifeToday.com or on our Family Life app.

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So I think I know what you're going to say, but what would you say was the lowest point of our marriage?

Oh, no doubt.

Please don't say yesterday or today.

I'm guessing our listeners would know this answer.

It was our 10 year anniversary when I told you I've got nothing left.

I've lost all my feelings for you and I felt in my heart like I'm done.

I've got nothing and I didn't even have hope.

And that was 31 years ago.

So now when you think of that moment, what do you think?

God used that moment to catapult us into what he designed for our future.

Whereas I look at it and I think Satan, his design was that our marriage would end.

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