Hi and welcome back to the Personality Hacker podcast my name is Joe Mark Witt and I'm

Antonia Dodge we recently had a conversation with a younger friend of ours who's she's like 18 years old now and she you know she went through a lot of depression as she was going you know growing up through her teenage years and at some point last year she just

decided she was done being depressed she just decided she was done being

miserable so she went on a personal development journey or started her personal development journey consciously.

In the Myersburg system she's an I NTP and she decided that she was going to get out of her

shell and use what we call her co-pilot process of exploration and she decided that she was going to not, she was going to choose to not be unhappy.

She was going to choose to be happy.

So that was about a year ago. And she now has people in her life where she was talking about how frustrating it is to engage with other people who are either, you know, always looking to her to help solve

their problems for them, or when she does give them advice or coaching, I mean these are people

who are her peers, basically around her same age

bracket. When she gives them advice, she's like, I don't see anybody ever actually taking

it. So she's like, so I don't understand why I should keep dispensing advice that nobody takes.

So we got on a conversation about, you know, when you figure out some strategies, some tools

to navigate the world, when you figure out some things that have worked, whether they've worked for you as an individual or they work in general because they're a great model,

no in this in the case of our friend she was people approach her, but oftentimes it's we get excited by it.

Like this thing has really worked for us and it feels really good and we want to share it with the people that we love.

We want to share it with the people that we love. We want to share it with friends or

family members. We've gotten emails from people who are like, oh hey I you know I love

your stuff it's really made an impact on me and I try to get other people listen to your podcast and we've had a couple

of people say you know it's just not landing with them and and that's okay on

our you know from our end but from their end it's frustrating because you know how do you

introduce something that's been life altering to you to somebody else when they

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