Sharing Trade (w/ Willam Belli)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.9 • 16K Ratings
🗓️ 17 July 2026
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
Drag queen icon Willam (Drag Race S4, host of Race Chasers) returns! She joins Nicole to break down the mathematical formula for the optimal orgy, the proper etiquette for passing good trade around to your drag sisters, and what really goes down inside LA's underground sex dungeons. Willam also reveals her pro tips for scheduling multiple hookups in one night and confesses the absolute kinkiest thing she's ever done. Plus, hear the hot story of how she met her 6'6" lawyer ex-husband at the door of Micky's, why she turned to OnlyFans to pay her two mortgages, and why she simply has to stop hooking up with the contestants on her new dating show, Love's a Drag.
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| 0:00.0 | The nice man in my life once planned a surprise trip for us to Idlewile, and it was unbelievable. |
| 0:06.9 | He booked a stay on Airbnb and found this absolute dream of an A-frame cabin tucked right into the snowy mountains. |
| 0:13.1 | It was gorgeous and sat on this massive private property, which meant my dog Clyde also had a fun vacation roaming the woods all by himself. Then we finally went |
| 0:22.0 | into town and discover Isle while is literally the greatest place on earth. Do you know who their mayor is? |
| 0:27.5 | A golden retriever named Mayor, Max the Third. I'm not joking. You can go downtown on the weekends and actually meet the mayor and his staff of deputy golden retrievers. |
| 0:38.7 | And when we got back to the cabin, we had this private hot tub all to ourselves under the pine |
| 0:42.9 | trees and enjoyed a private sunset view of the mountains. It was so romantic and cozy. |
| 0:49.3 | It felt like our own private sanctuary. And it made the trip just so special. I'm glad he found that cabin. When you book a stay |
| 0:55.7 | on Airbnb, you find these absolute gems that are so much more spacious and have so much more |
| 1:01.0 | personality. It really elevates any trip into a memorable one. Give it a try yourself. The next time |
| 1:06.9 | you travel, try booking your next day on Airbnb. Want to watch this episode? Catch the full |
| 1:12.1 | video on YouTube. Just hit the link in the episode description. This is a headgum podcast. |
| 1:21.1 | I am not paying for apps to meet people and I don't. Like I did Bob's podcast two weeks ago and he's |
| 1:26.3 | like, you have ads on Grindr. I was like, you're more concerned about my ads or the fact that you tried to fuck me on there and now you won't fuck me in person. Because he didn't see my face and he saw everything else and he wanted it. Fuck Cracker. Fucks all these little skinny fagget twinks and he won't fuck me. That's rude. Well, he did invite me to Game Night, which is better. I'd rather... Game Night is fun at Bob's. Yeah, I want to go to that. |
| 1:46.5 | You gotta come to one. |
| 1:47.3 | And then maybe I'll like, and he won't fuck me. That's rude. Well, he did invite me to Game Night, which is better. |
| 1:44.3 | I'd rather... Game night is fun at Bob's. |
| 1:45.6 | Yeah, I want to go to that. |
| 1:46.6 | You gotta come to one. |
| 1:47.3 | And then maybe I'll, like, blow him or something. |
| 1:49.7 | Like, why doesn't he want to fuck me? |
| 1:55.3 | Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me? |
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