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The Story Collider

Shame: Stories about the judgment of others

The Story Collider

Story Collider, Inc.

Arts, Science, Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Performing Arts

4.4824 Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2020

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

This week we present two stories from people who felt shamed by a diagnosis.

Part 1: Jamie Brickhouse's HIV-positive status becomes a point of tension at the dentist's office.

Part 2: Diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder as a child, Anders Lee struggles with this identity as an adult preparing to donate sperm.

Called “a natural raconteur” by the Washington Post, Jamie Brickhouse is the New York Times published author of Dangerous When Wet: A Memoir of Booze, Sex, and My Mother, and he’s appeared on PBS-TV’s Stories from the Stage, The Moth Podcast, Risk! Podcast, Story Collider Podcast, and recorded voice-overs for the legendary cartoon Beavis and Butthead. He is a four-time Moth StorySLAM champion, National Storytelling Network Grand Slam winner, and Literary Death Match champ. Jamie tours two award-winning solo shows, Dangerous When Wet, based on his critically-acclaimed memoir, and I Favor My Daddy, based on his forthcoming memoir. A fixture on the New York storytelling circuit, he has appeared on stages across the country and in Mexico and Canada. Jamie’s personal essays have been published in the New York Times, International Herald Tribune, Washington Post, Daily Beast, Salon, Out, Huffington Post, and POZ. Friend him on Facebook, follow him on Instagram, Twitter and YouTube @jamiebrickhouse, and visit www.jamiebrickhouse.com.

Anders Lee is a DC based comedian and writer featured on TV's Redacted Tonight and the podcast Pod Damn America.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

A science story, huh?

0:04.0

Is NYU a scientist?

0:06.0

I felt.

0:07.0

I was so...

0:08.0

And I just thought, well...

0:10.0

It was that golden moment.

0:12.0

Because science was on my side.

0:15.0

Hello, everybody. Hello everybody, welcome to the Story Collider, where we bring you true personal stories about science.

0:29.9

I'm your host, Aaron Barker, and this week we're presenting stories about shame.

0:35.4

One of my favorite topics, of course.

0:40.2

Specifically, we are talking about the kind of shame that can come from labels or diagnoses, the kind of shame that we hope our storytellers

0:46.0

today will be able to liberate themselves from. Our first story is from Jamie Brickhouse.

0:51.5

It was recorded in February 2020 at Union Hall in Brooklyn, New York.

0:56.2

The theme that night was The Science of Sex and Love.

1:06.1

You know, I like to think of myself as Jesus Christ. Not when I'm wearing a loin cloth, but that whole turn the other cheek thing, I hate

1:17.2

confrontation.

1:19.0

Example, I am at a new dentist for the first time.

1:23.2

My old dentist stopped taking my insurance.

1:25.9

So my partner, Michael, said, well, why don't you go to my guy,

1:29.6

Dr. Flowers? I've been seeing him for years. He takes our insurance. So I'm like, okay. And so I'm at the

1:35.2

first appointment. And now call me crazy, but I've always liked going to the dentist. I know,

1:41.8

but I've got good teeth. So I think that has something to do with it.

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