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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Sexual Fetish Research

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2022

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Humberto presents research to Dr Kirk regarding sexual fetishes and whether entertaining one’s thoughts will lead to harmful behavior.

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00:00 Sexual Fetish Research
02:45 Vorarephilia
20:50 Academic research about sexual fantasies & violence
37:39 Sexual fantasies & obsessive thoughts
49:40 Attachment behavior in men
56:18 In conclusion & destigmatization

December 5, 2022


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0:00.0

Hades Irving listeners, we recently did an episode about Army Hammer, and in that episode

0:04.9

me and Enberto were debating, to some extent, and we've had this debate before, where we

0:09.9

are talking about the correlation between sexual fantasy and actual behavior.

0:17.0

So if someone has a fantasy, a vor fetish, a cannibalistic fantasy, or some other fantasy

0:24.1

that they might engage in, that if they acted out would be a crime, what's the association

0:29.0

between fantasizing and actually committing the crime?

0:33.2

And my general approach, which of course isn't always applicable to every human being,

0:38.6

is that fantasies are over-stigmatized and over-assumed to be associated with actual behavior.

0:46.8

But Enberto was not necessarily disagreeing with that, but was providing the caution

0:51.8

of do we really want to allow people to have these kinds of dangerous fantasies when it

0:58.3

might be one of those individuals that they might go down a road of actually committing

1:02.3

these horrendous crimes, and I was specifically saying, you can't not allow brain things

1:08.5

to happen.

1:09.5

It was more like, you know, if that's happening, that's something I would think you should

1:14.0

do something about, like you should seek help instead of keep fantasizing and fantasizing

1:18.2

about it.

1:19.6

Yeah.

1:20.6

And so I, after the episode thought, well, maybe because we do get into this debate

1:26.6

sometimes, me and you, we could actually do a follow-up episode, and I thought, because

1:32.6

I'm often trying to tell you, Berdo, the research, I'm trying to share with you psychological

1:38.6

research, and I thought, maybe it'd be good if you actually looked it up so you could

1:43.3

be convinced either way yourself.

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