Sexism, Allies, and Socks
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 22 July 2022
⏱️ 64 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | So Rebecca, question so many, let's answer them, what do you say? |
| 0:03.6 | I'm really, really ready this time. |
| 0:05.8 | Anonymous patron from Norway says, |
| 0:08.3 | I'm currently in therapy for my eating disorder. |
| 0:11.4 | One of the biggest reasons for my eating disorder |
| 0:13.5 | is the drive to not have anyone look at me in a sexual way ever again. |
| 0:18.5 | I get so triggered when I hear about men assessing women as a sexual partner |
| 0:22.9 | as soon as they see them or how men talk about women when women aren't around. |
| 0:27.7 | Are all men who are attracted to women like this? |
| 0:30.9 | It makes me want to not have a body for them to look at anymore. |
| 0:34.7 | I feel violated knowing that men around me are thinking about me in a sexual way, |
| 0:39.2 | even if they quote unquote, can't help it. |
| 0:41.8 | Is there a way to deal with this? |
| 0:44.0 | Rebecca, what do you think? |
| 0:45.2 | Yeah, so an important part in your identity work could possibly be |
| 0:52.1 | moving towards caring less about what people think about you. |
| 0:57.7 | Obviously, if you feel like you're being sexualized, |
| 1:02.2 | that is an aggression and it's hard to move away from that. |
| 1:06.3 | But I would say anything you can do to feel like you have boundaries around you |
| 1:12.0 | that allow your skin to feel like it's not being penetrated. |
| 1:16.4 | And this is long-term work when I do it with clients |
| 1:20.4 | that it takes a long time to feel like every gaze isn't going right straight at you. |
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