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🗓️ 18 February 2025
⏱️ 106 minutes
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What is a sugar daddy, really? The answer might disturb you. Brook Urick takes us into the shadowy world of sugar dating, where young women are lured into dangerous situations under the guise of financial security. From being a would-be sugar baby to becoming the public face of SeekingArrangement, Urick unveils the unsettling truth about these platforms and their role in enabling predatory behavior.
Urick’s revelations go beyond personal experience. She exposes how these websites intentionally protect exploiters, with their founder even caught in a sting operation attempting to meet a minor. With the passage of FOSTA-SESTA in 2018, making these platforms criminally liable, she questions why they still exist. Her goal? To bring public awareness and legal scrutiny to an industry built on deception and harm.
Shermer and Urick discuss the realities of sugar dating, the blurred lines between sex work and exploitation, and the psychology of men and women in the industry. They explore legal and ethical debates, feminist perspectives, and societal consequences of prostitution and pornography. Urick shares her experiences at SeekingArrangement, including the dangers young women face and the website’s role in fostering systemic abuse and deception.
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0:00.0 | You're listening to The Michael Shermer Show. |
0:15.7 | My guest today, you're not going to believe this is going to be one of the most interesting shows I've had. |
0:21.0 | Here is her book, Wink, Wink, Nudge, Nudge, Sexual Exploits and Secrets from Inside a Sugar Daddy |
0:29.2 | website. She knows because she was in the inside, first as a sugar baby, and then as a, I guess, working in the PR department and recruitment |
0:40.2 | and so on until she wised up and figured out what was going on. Brooke, nice to see you. Thanks for |
0:44.8 | coming on. Thanks for writing this book, by the way. Oh, thank you. And thanks for having me. |
0:49.2 | I'm interested to talk to a scientist. Well, yeah, I think there is actually a lot of science that we can bring into the |
0:56.9 | discussion about male, female differences in our evolved sexual psychology. But before we get in |
1:03.9 | all that, what's your story? I mean, I asked this of all guests, but yours is particularly interesting. |
1:09.2 | How did you go from whatever it is you were doing? How were you raised? Give us a little bit of background about that, |
1:14.2 | and then how you nudged into this story. I started out as a sort of promiscuous teenager, and I was |
1:24.5 | kind of given permission to do that by like sort of permissive parents who, you know, allowed me to do what I was going to do. |
1:33.1 | And that led me to working for an adult novelty company, which was like my entry into the sex industry. |
1:40.6 | And kind of desensitized me to talking about sex and working in the sex industry. And that's what led me to |
1:47.1 | my job at seeking arrangement as a spokesperson and PR manager. So I did start out as a sugar baby. I got my |
1:54.6 | job because of the knowledge that I had of the sex industry and because of the ease at which I was |
1:59.6 | able to talk about sex and |
2:00.9 | like sexual topics. But I didn't start out working there. I started out as a user of the website |
2:07.4 | and I originally joined because I thought that I was going to be a reality star. They said they |
2:14.1 | were doing a reality showcasting. My friend told me about the site. She's like, you know, sign up. We can be reality stars. I was like, okay, cool. So that's kind of where I got my start there, which led me to then, like, working for the company. And it's interesting because, like, I started out as someone who was cast to appear in the media and basically lie on behalf of the |
2:37.0 | company and was paid to lie. And then they hired me. And then I was casting people to lie in the |
2:44.4 | media on behalf of the company. So it's kind of one of those classic stories where like you are |
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