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We Met At Acme

Sex When You Don’t Feel Sexy ft. Shan Boodram

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 August 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, I sit down with sexologist Shan Boodram. Shan and I discuss marriage pacts, how to have a good sex life when you’re not feeling good about yourself, how to enjoy sex when you’re going through fertility struggles, sex after having kids, why it takes so long to have good sex in a new relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the 101 questions to ask before you get engaged and opine on recent polls and their results. 

Be sure to watch Shan on The Marriage Pact on Roku!

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:07.0

Hey guys, welcome back to Lima, Raki.

0:10.0

If you are listening to this on Sunday, when it airs, I am at camp right now in the

0:17.4

Poconos, and I would have just had the best weekend ever.

0:23.0

And I think it might be honestly the last camp ever, so if you came, I'm so glad to hear

0:28.1

it.

0:29.1

And I'm going to do a recap on it when I actually am coming back from it.

0:33.9

Obviously, I'm doing this ahead of time, but so exciting.

0:39.3

Today's episode is with somebody that I really look up to in the sex, dating, love, etc.

0:46.8

podcast world.

0:48.6

Her name is Shan Boudrom.

0:50.1

She's been on the podcast before.

0:52.5

If you want to go back and listen to her original episode, she's, but since then, like

0:57.4

a lot has happened in her life, and we talk about it on this episode, and it was really

1:02.8

hard for me to decide which episode to put out this week, because I had done a poll

1:06.7

on our Instagram.

1:07.7

Should I put out the sex, when you don't feel sexy episode, or should I put out the why

1:12.1

you should lower your standards episode, which are two really good topics.

1:15.3

So that means we have two really good episodes coming up this one today, which is the sex

1:20.4

one with Shan, and next week with a male dating coach named Evan.

1:26.1

We have some healthy debates, which we always love, and he has some really good insight

1:31.1

as well.

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