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Female by Design

Sex Toys & Vibrators

Female by Design

Francie Winslow

Christianity, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality

4.9686 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2023

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

What's okay for Christian marriage in the bedroom? 

Maybe that's the wrong question. Married sex can be a playground, filled with creativity and adventure. In this episode, we'll reframe the question and perhaps help you process and give yourself permission for a little bit of adventure and freedom in your marriage bed. God created you in a wonderful way and designed married intimacy as celebration.

The bodies of a husband and wife are designed to fit together perfectly and there isn't a mandate saying you need to add anything. Sex toys are simply tools that you can introduce to your married intimacy "menu." Consider these thoughts on sex toys as you process what is good for your marriage.

 

Related Episodes:

Re-framing Novelty- How Monogamy Doesn't Equal Monotony, Episode 85

Becoming Sexually Adventurous - Pt. 2 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, Episode 132

Invitation to Discover Your Wonderful Female Body, Episode 104

Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris, Episode 105

Your Wonderful Female Body - G-spot, Episode 106

Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, Episode 107

Your Wonderful Female Body - 4 Stages of Sexual Response, Episode 108

Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Desire, Episode 109

Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Arousal, Episode 110

Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 1, Episode 111

Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 2, Episode 113

 

Resources mentioned:

Merry Marriage Gift Guide

We Vibe

Married Dance - use code MerryMarriage for savings

Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens, Bonny Burns

 

You're Invited:

Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi friends, welcome back. It's such a privilege that you would share a few minutes of your day

0:08.9

with me here. Thank you for being here. I want to start out with a testimony from one of our listeners.

0:14.3

Hi, Francie. Thank you for your ministry. I've been married 27 years and due to lots of sexual

0:18.8

pain in my childhood and sins in our early marriage, sex

0:22.5

has been a challenge for us. You wouldn't know it given that I've raised six children,

0:27.0

but I've learned a lot from your podcast and I've heard about sex and sexuality in a way

0:32.4

that I've never heard it before. It's given me much peace, excitement, and hope for infusing

0:37.0

life and love and

0:38.6

passion and joy and freedom back into our sex life. I'm looking forward with hope to the future

0:45.7

and to the time we still have together. So grateful for your honesty, passion, and words of life.

0:51.6

I'm so grateful for this listener and for each of you who have been so transparent

0:56.1

with your stories as you send them in, I'm constantly amazed at the power of God's truth

1:01.9

and God's heart and God's intention and the wisdom of God in our bodies to really bring healing

1:07.1

as we bring to the forefront of our thinking and our mind and let him renew our mind

1:12.7

and our thinking with what's true and lovely and good and admirable and praiseworthy and

1:17.3

really allow him to transform our thinking and our living. And this mama just really encouraged me

1:23.3

with her great experience that she's had as a very experienced mother and experienced wife,

1:28.3

the way she is continuing to lean into God's heart to pursue more with a hope for the future,

1:34.1

knowing that there is always more in Christ as we grow as we lean into his healing for us

1:39.2

and the restoration that he has to offer us.

1:42.6

So I hope you enjoy today's conversation. We are going there on

1:45.9

sex toys. It is a topic I get asked about a lot. And so I'm praying that today offers you a bit

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