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Hello, everyone, and welcome to another episode of Behind the Rose podcast.

I'm your host, Blake Horsman, here with my buddy, as usual, Eric Bradley. And today, we have an exciting episode with sex therapist, Vanessa, we talked to Vanessa about how to get over the shame associated with sex, how your enneagram might affect your sex life, and what her number one course is for women and why it's not shocking.

But first, Eric, let's chat a little bit. I wanted to get on here and talk kind of about some,

I don't know, there's a lot of articles written about a podcast that I did and I kind of set it

off the cuff and people kind of ran with it. And that was kind of me talking about Becca.

And I know every single time I talk

about Becca, it's going to be huge headlines. And like, I can't really stop that. So I'm just probably going to stop talking about Becca in general. But I wanted to just clear some things up. You know, everybody was like, oh, they were talking. They were talking. I don't think that was like a big secret. Like, you know, I was asked like, hey, are you and Becca talking? I was like, yeah, we've been

talking. We've hung out a couple times in L.A. So it wasn't like, hey, hey, yeah, we're dating. Like, you know, I was asked like, hey, are you and Becca talking? I was like, yeah, we've

hung out a couple times in L.A. So it wasn't like, hey, hey, yeah, we're dating. Like, that's not what it was.

I am a big fan of Becca. I will always support Becca. She's a good friend of mine. And her decision

going to go in paradise. I'm happy for her. I told her that. And I don't know how it ends but if she finds somebody I'm going to be very happy for her

she deserves the world I just want to put that out there because I think a lot of people I saw one

article had bait headline saying that I wanted to be the bachelor to get back at Becca and I was like

what the fuck is going on so I just want to say that out there like she's awesome she deserves a world

and she finds somebody I'm going to be very supportive.

So I just kind of wanted to, I guess, clarify that because there was quite a bit out there about that kind of stuff. We also saw maybe you could clarify it too if it was taken out of context. Producers not wanting you guys together. Yeah, good question. So I think, honestly, it was, it was like one of those things where like,

I think the, I can't remember what the podcaster asked me, but she was like, maybe it was why I didn't go on the show or anything. And I think that was more of me being like, I don't know if in that environment, like what would happen. Like, I'd rather just have it happen, you know, if it was to happen, I don't, you know, we'll see up here, whatever, but it's just like, I think it was more of like,

I don't think if I was down there, the producers would be very keen on that. But by no means,

if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. Like, I don't think the producers like, you know, you don't know, like whatever, you know what I mean? So that, I shouldn't have said that. that definitely came out from so i'm glad you asked that all right so you just mentioned like

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