Sex Then vs. Sex Now
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 January 2021
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Acting out sexually was Coby's way of dealing with stress but having sex with his wife Ashlynn didn't yield the same result. Sex with Ashlynn was a disconnecting and selfish act for Coby because he had no idea what his own sexuality was about, let alone what sex with his partner was. This episode will talk about sex then vs sex now.
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We are glad you found our season 3 episodes where we share some of our most advanced learnings and bring amazing experts on when it comes to relationships, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information.
We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
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| 0:00.0 | Sex then versus sex now. |
| 0:04.0 | We're so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive in your relationship. |
| 0:10.0 | Guys, welcome to the Betrayed, the Addicted, and the Expert, a beyond enough production. |
| 0:15.2 | Hi, I'm Ashland, the once Betray. I'm Kobe, the once addicted. |
| 0:18.9 | And I'm Brandon, the expert. And he's definitely an expert. |
| 0:21.9 | You've been working to help couples with their extreme challenges for like 15 years right? Yeah, a long time and I'm glad that I'm here with you guys sharing your vulnerable story and I hope that it helps our listeners as well. |
| 0:34.0 | Absolutely and if you need some help getting started we have a free resource over at |
| 0:38.6 | beyond-en-N-F.com forward slash step one. |
| 0:42.4 | And that's one the number it provides the first key |
| 0:45.9 | steps to healing your relationship regardless of how tough things are right now |
| 0:49.8 | all right guys let's roll |
| 1:00.2 | We are going to talk about what that looks like not too personal but overall what that looks like After we read this review this is is over on iTunes, if you guys take just a 30 seconds to go over and leave your review, it helps other people find our podcast. |
| 1:11.3 | So this is from someone someone a much needed tool. This |
| 1:15.6 | podcast is truly saving me right now. It's coming to light that I'm pretty |
| 1:18.9 | positive. My husband has a compulsion to viewing porn. He is still in denial despite much evidence. A friend |
| 1:26.1 | recommended this podcast and before now I had never even heard of betrayal trauma. The show |
| 1:31.1 | genuinely helps with the crazy making feeling I am experiencing. |
| 1:35.0 | It helps me sort through my feelings and confusion. |
| 1:39.0 | We've just started therapy and I know that we'll take time, |
| 1:42.0 | so this show is keeping me grounded and working on |
| 1:44.8 | boundaries in the meantime thank you so so much for the honesty and insight and |
| 1:48.7 | practical tools for dealing with these issues. Awesome. |
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