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Savage Lovecast

Sex & Politics #28: Micro Version

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2024

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

For this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan speaks with Rob Henderson, author of "Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class." Rob's heart-breaking memoir goes into his wrenching childhood, and also his concept of "luxury beliefs," - sanctimonious ideas that the upper classes advocate for, but usually don't follow themselves, and ultimately hurt the poor and working class. Henderson includes non-monogamy as a luxury belief, and as you can imagine, Dan ain't havin' it.  This is a 20 minute taste of Sex & Politics. The Magnum version of this conversation goes on for over an hour- and that's where Dan and Rob go toe-to-toe over traditional vs. open relationships. To hear the rest of the interview, subscribe to the Magnum at Savage.Love. Hear their polite argument, and tell us what you think in the comments!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, Mike Rose Savage Lovecast listeners. This week, we're giving you a little taste, more like a

0:05.2

heaping serving, actually, of the kind of convo's magnum subs get to enjoy here on sex and politics,

0:10.7

our bonus podcast for our paid subscribers. We're sharing this part of my conversation with

0:15.2

author Rob Henderson with you. I hope you enjoy it. And we hope it inspires you to think about becoming one of my

0:22.3

subs. You're listening to Sex and Politics at Savage. Love.

0:31.1

Sex and politics.

0:34.1

You know, I don't know who was more surprised. Rob Henderson, when we asked him to come on the show or me, when Rob Henderson agreed to come on the show.

0:43.3

Henderson writes the Rob Henderson newsletter on Substack, and he is the author of Troubled,

0:48.5

a memoir of foster care, family, and social class, which is out now.

0:53.7

Rob had a rough early life, which we talk about before

0:58.1

Rob wound up at Yale, where he arrived not with a chip on his shoulder, but with an outsider's

1:03.7

eye. He graduated from Yale four years later with, depending on your point of view, either a chip on

1:08.7

his shoulder, or a stinging and legitimate

1:11.4

critique of the elites, which Rob is now, by Dint of his education and his success as a thinker

1:18.3

and public intellectual, definitely a part of, whether he likes it or not. This is sex and politics.

1:24.8

I'm Dan Savage. This is a special bonus podcast we do for Magnum

1:28.8

Subscribers of the Savage Lovecast. If you can hear my voice, you are a Magnum sub. Thank you so much

1:33.0

for your support. Our last two guests here on Sex and Politics, Tim Miller, Kat Rosenfield,

1:39.5

perceived as, I guess, in Tim Miller's case, a right winger used to be a highly placed Republican operative,

1:45.4

worked for George Bush, had white wine spritzers in a hotel lobby once with none other than

1:49.9

Lindsay Graham. Tim is now the host of the Bullworks flagship podcast, The Bullwork,

1:55.4

Cat Rosenfield, novelist, podcaster, columnist perceived, I think, inaccurately as center right, accused sometimes

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