So maybe you get on top and you just start to move around slowly and you just sort of take control.

Maybe take his hand and gently put on your breasts or put it where you want it.

Being really kind about it, but just think, hey, this would feel good.

Take their hand and go do this. Do that. Like, hopefully it'll be cool.

Oh god, thank god I want to know.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize

your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

All right, I am setting you up with a year of pleasure in this episode.

Okay, maybe you made a New Year's resolution. Maybe not.

What I've realized about resolutions is that they kind of set us up for failure.

They're often unattainable and then we end up feeling worse.

So I figured with January out of the way, let's check in on your New Year's intentions

that maybe you forgot about. Are you on track? Are you staying committed?

Are you sexually satisfied? Does your love life need some inspiration?

What about your personal life? Maybe you're taking time off to work on yourself.

I check in on my own intentions, what I share with you and I talk through our new pleasure planner

with one of our teammates, Amanda, to discuss how we're going to prioritize our pleasure

and how it will indeed benefit your life.

I also answer questions about SDIs and condoms, how to ask for what you want in the bedroom

and how to heal relationship if your partner cheated.

So, to follow up on that, we have a new website.

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