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Sex, Friendship And Aging: 'It's Not All Downhill From Here'

Code Switch

NPR

Society & Culture

4.614.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2020

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

This week, senior correspondent Karen Grigsby Bates talks with the best-selling author Terry McMillan, famous for her novels Waiting to Exhale and How Stella Got Her Groove Back. The two longtime friends chat about McMillan's latest novel, It's Not All Downhill From Here, and the topics the book tackles: aging, friendship, race and sex.

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, Shrine Marisol Maragi here and I wanted to let you know about something

0:04.9

very special that's coming up on the podcast. April 1st is officially census day where people

0:11.6

all over the country are going to be checking a race box. So we're bringing you some really great

0:17.2

storytelling all month long, not necessarily about the census, but about who we are and who counts

0:24.4

in 2020. You're not going to want to miss this.

0:33.0

There will be some foul language in this episode. You have been warned.

0:37.4

Some cussing. I'm Shrine Marisol Maragi and I'm Jean Demby. And you're listening to

0:42.0

Code Switch from NPR and today we're joined by our teammate and senior correspondent

0:47.0

Karen Grigsby-Bates. Hey KGB. Hey y'all.

0:49.4

All right fam. I'm going to be captain obvious and just say that this has been a very weird week.

0:59.3

The weirdest week? I mean, ever. I've ever had. We're all basically self-quarantining. I've only

1:05.2

been working for home for a few days and I'm already starting to like lose my marbles. I've

1:09.5

been all the tortillas in my house. I'm doing push up contests with myself. I'm sending

1:15.3

challenges, push up challenges to your husband's journey. Which I did not know about till right now.

1:19.2

Challenge both of y'all too. You know how I challenge me. I don't do push ups.

1:22.7

You know what I do do though? I dance. That is true. You do dance. You do be dancing.

1:29.6

And the highlight of this very, very weird week and I do not like working from home. I'm very

1:34.5

bad at it. I'm an extrovert. So the highlight was taking Debbie Allen of Fame Fames,

1:40.0

free dance class on Insta and Body Rolling, which I'm doing right now in the studio to Beyoncé's

1:46.2

Nady Girl. What ever gets you through? Karen, you know you love that song. You know, I love

2:03.8

hearing Jean beat your back up. That's what I love. Yes, I'm definitely the Michelle Williams.

2:09.5

And I'll know we have hit end times when Jean starts to eat mayo straight out of the jar.

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