It was okay that I didn't always orgasm during penetration, but I had to figure out, and I did figure out with my hands and with toys to figure out what felt good.

So I was about 25, but it was a process.

I want people to know, it's not like you just one day figure it out.

This is how I do it and it's always like that from ever on.

It's different, different positions, different times a day, different times a month.

There's just always a lot to figure out, but I would say I started taking seriously

when I was 25 and then really much more in my 30s.

That was like my full-time job.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

So today's episode is part two of sex and Emily.

This week I spent the episode answering all the questions you submitted about my sex life, my sexual. the have I joined the Mile High Club, the age I took control of my orgasm, some more about my favorite

positions, and just stuff I really hadn't thought about or shared in a long time.

So have a listen and let me know. Is this kind of episode something you want more of?

Because you know if it helps you, it helps me. And also I want to thank everyone who came out to my live

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It was a dream to do these shows at comedy clubs,

meet you all in person, and really do a live show

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