Seven Days of Soul-Searching
Marriage and Martinis
Adam Silverstein
4.8 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 11 December 2023
⏱️ 67 minutes
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Summary
In this follow-up episode to last week's "When Is It The Last Straw," Adam breaks down some of what he has reflected on, realized, and is starting to learn, even in the past week. However, he also admits that removing his ego from the equation is difficult for him. Danielle and Adam discuss their history with therapy, why it hasn't been effective for Adam in the past, and why he presently is beginning to change his view on it. Adam confronts Danielle about the confusing mixed messages she gave him all week, wanting to have sex despite their fighting and disconnection. Plus, Danielle brings up past events from six years ago, and discusses how never having closure about these awful acts has impacted her overall ability to move forward with Adam.
Episode #31, The Guilt Episode, is referenced a few times in this episode. Listen to that episode from December 3, 2018 for more context.
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| 0:00.0 | Attention at all passengers. You can now book your train tickets on Uber and get 10% back in Uber credits to spend on your next train journey. |
| 0:11.0 | So no excuses not to visit your in-laws this Christmas. |
| 0:16.5 | Trains now on Uber. T's and C's apply check the Uber app. I wanted to start off by just saying this is hard. This is not an easy thing. |
| 0:30.6 | Therapy is something that I am a big problem with us. |
| 0:35.9 | In between therapy and that, we had some like crazy built up like fun sexual things going up. |
| 0:48.0 | What was that all about? |
| 0:50.0 | Hey everybody, welcome to Marager Mart. I'm Adam here's Danielle. |
| 0:54.0 | Hello. |
| 0:55.0 | All right so we're gonna skip the chit chat, the banter, all that stuff right? |
| 1:01.0 | Yep. That was a thing for the list. |
| 1:02.0 | Straight to the point. Get right? Yep. That was a thing for the left. |
| 1:03.0 | Straight to the point. |
| 1:04.0 | Get right into it. |
| 1:05.0 | Sure. |
| 1:07.0 | You put something, I just started like Chit-chat. |
| 1:10.0 | That's not good. |
| 1:11.0 | Didn't you put something last week about the episode? We were |
| 1:14.0 | taking too long to get to it. Yeah. That whole thing. Yeah. Right. Well I |
| 1:19.3 | listen I think people need to keep in mind that if they think about their own conversations, arguments, fights, |
| 1:26.8 | whatever you want to call it, at home, |
| 1:30.8 | or with people you love, it can take a little bit to get to the meat of things, right? |
| 1:36.8 | You don't just dive in unless, you know, in the moment you're just enraged. |
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