Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.9 • 16K Ratings
🗓️ 10 June 2022
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
Stripper and exotic entertainer Vanity Jay chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. She shares the complicated nature of dating both customers and strippers from clubs, the time she accidentally burned herself lighting her pussy on fire, and the challenges of dating a jealous partner. Plus, they help give advice to a listener seeking sex position recommendations for their partner who isn't the most endowed.
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| 0:00.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:10.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:12.0 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:14.0 | Please tell me why. |
| 0:24.0 | Baby, welcome to another episode of Why won't you date me? |
| 0:26.3 | A podcast or a minicle buyer tries to figure out how I'm still single. |
| 0:29.8 | Though you could push me out of bed. |
| 0:35.8 | And when I say, ow, that hurt you go. |
| 0:38.8 | You're now a floor bitch. |
| 0:40.8 | Okay, my guest today, I'm running out of these stupid little intros. |
| 0:45.8 | Um, my guest today, I'm very, very, very excited. |
| 0:50.8 | Vanity is a professional model, pole dancer, an exotic entertainer. |
| 0:56.8 | Ooh, it's a vanity J. |
| 1:00.8 | How are you? |
| 1:02.8 | I'm good. How are you? |
| 1:04.8 | How good? |
| 1:06.8 | Thank you so much for doing this. |
| 1:08.8 | So, yeah, we were saying before we started recording, you were like, how the fuck do you know who I am? |
| 1:13.8 | And I found you on Instagram. |
| 1:15.8 | And I just thought that you were like, oh no, you're just fun and effortless. |
| 1:22.8 | And I had never seen, and you like, you strip, right? |
| 1:25.8 | Yeah, I do. |
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