Setting Retirement Goals: The Paradox of Knowing What You Want
Retirement Answer Man
Roger Whitney, CFP®, CIMA®, RMA, CPWA®
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 8 October 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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💬 Show Notes
In this episode, Roger Whitney kicks off a four-week series on retirement goal setting, tackling the paradox of knowing what you want in retirement. He discusses the challenges of articulating desires for a life stage that many have never experienced, emphasizing the importance of not oversimplifying retirement goals. Tune in to explore how to set the right conditions for a fulfilling retirement and avoid the pitfalls of external scripts and societal expectations.
OUTLINE OF THIS EPISODE OF THE RETIREMENT ANSWER MAN
PRACTICAL PLANNING
- (01:32) We are starting a four week series on retirement goal setting.
- (02:44) Why “What do you want to spend in retirement?” isn’t the right question.
- (05:54) Next week, we'll talk about how to be more nuanced when setting retirement goals.
- (09:40) The problem with following other people’s scripts
- (13:14) The problem of getting too detailed
LISTENER QUESTIONS
- (16:36) Am I required to keep an Inherited IRA separate from my other IRA's or can it be combined with an existing IRA for simplicity?
- (19:11) Richard wants to noodle on the retirement distribution order.
- (23:40) I’m 3-5 years from retirement. Is now the right time to join Rock Retirement Club?
- (26:29) Estate preparation hint from Jane on the three passwords a family needs
SMART SPRINT
- (28:19) In the next seven days, revisit your retirement goals.
EXTRA
- (29:11) Shauna and I are celebrating our 35th wedding anniversary this week!
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| 0:00.0 | I optimized for a retirement that would have impressed my 40-year-old self, not one that would |
| 0:05.5 | fulfill my 70-year-old self. |
| 0:08.2 | Lee Eisenberg's the number. |
| 0:10.2 | Oops. |
| 0:13.4 | Welcome to the show dedicated to helping you not just survive retirement, but to have the |
| 0:18.3 | confidence to lean in and rock it. |
| 0:22.2 | Oops. |
| 0:24.5 | My name is Roger Whitney. |
| 0:26.7 | Welcome to the show. |
| 0:27.7 | If you are new here, we don't do this very often. |
| 0:29.7 | If you are new here, new to listening to this show, two things I want to tell you. |
| 0:34.9 | One is welcome. |
| 0:36.7 | In this show, every week, for the last 11 years, we |
| 0:39.6 | noodle on how to do retirement planning well, getting the reps in on doing the financial part |
| 0:47.5 | well, so that you can create a great life. Remember, that's the point of the exercise. |
| 0:55.8 | And it's so easy to miss that when we're geeking out on the number. |
| 0:59.0 | So we talk about both sides on the show. |
| 1:01.1 | That's the first thing I wanted to share. |
| 1:02.7 | Second is, if you haven't already, sign up for our noodle. |
| 1:08.2 | Sign up for the noodle, which is our weekly email that comes out every |
| 1:12.2 | Saturday where we share a recap of the show. We share resources we think are helpful, |
| 1:19.3 | and especially resources that we mentioned on the show. This is an easy way to get links to those |
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