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2 Be Better

Set Boundaries, Find Peace Chapter 5 Boundary Violations, Microaggressions and Codependency

2 Be Better

Chris Burkett

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture, Mental Health

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 2 January 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

In this episode we break down Chapter 5 of Nedra Glover Tawwab’s Set Boundaries, Find Peace and show you exactly what boundary violations look like in real life. We walk through micro and macro boundary violations, microaggressions, oversharing, guilt trips, enmeshment, codependency, trauma bonding and counter dependency, using real examples of toxic relationships, emotional manipulation, mixed messages, people pleasing and walking on eggshells in dating, marriage, family, friendships and at work. You will hear scripts and phrases to call out gaslighting and guilt tripping, how to say no without over explaining, how to shut down trauma dumping and microaggressions, and how to stop drowning for people who refuse to stand in three inches of water.


If you are a people pleaser, recovering codependent, or stuck in a toxic relationship, this conversation will help you recognize red flags, set clear boundaries and reclaim your time, energy and peace. We close with powerful reflection questions on how your life will change with healthy boundaries and challenge you to pick one relationship where you finally stand your ground instead of being the ground they walk on, then share your biggest boundary struggle and what you’re doing to work on it in the comments so your story can help someone else. Keywords: boundaries, boundary violations, healthy boundaries, people pleasing, codependency, enmeshment, trauma bonding, counter dependency, microaggressions, guilt trips, toxic relationships, emotional abuse, gaslighting, Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries Find Peace, relationship advice, healing journey, personal growth.

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.


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0:00.0

And look how far we've come, all the things we've done, did it all with love,

0:09.3

beauty from the bottom of, all I want is you, you're my favorite view, but there's nothing more.

0:20.4

Girl, you made my heart more and we are back

0:24.1

welcome back bumble bitches

0:25.6

this is the very first episode

0:28.3

that we are recording for 2026

0:31.3

what a crazy statement right

0:33.6

season four is now in full effect

0:35.7

season four has begun we were going to record the final episode of season three in the onesies tonight.

0:40.8

And we didn't because we don't have onesies.

0:43.4

We got rid of them.

0:44.5

And the Discord consensus is its tradition.

0:47.8

They are a must.

0:48.7

Yeah.

0:49.6

You know what we should do.

0:50.7

What's that?

0:51.2

Is after we do the onesie episodes, we should give away the onesies to our Discord community.

0:58.9

I really like this one we're getting.

1:00.8

Yeah. You want to keep the, the, the, I don't want to say it. Don't say what it is.

1:05.8

I said the movie. Okay. It's from Rudolph. Yeah. It is from Rudolph. Okay.

1:10.2

So that's a thing that I'll be here, hopefully this weekend sometimes so that we can get this recorded before we go to Kentucky.

1:17.7

Man, I got some new things to talk about today.

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