Session 452: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? Romance, Identity & Online Culture
Therapy for Black Girls
iHeartPodcasts and Joy Harden Bradford, Ph.D.
4.8 • 5.8K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2026
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
Where were you when the “Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” article dropped? Late last year when the piece dropped, it immediately took internet discourse by storm and had a lot of people in heterosexual relationships questioning and taking a deeper look into their relationships. This week we're joined by the woman behind the article, London-based writer and digital content producer Chanté Joseph, whose nuanced commentary on culture had all of us in a tizzy. Today, we’re unpacking the realities of dating in the digital age, and how women are redefining partnership as society shifts further away from patriarchy.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Therapy for Black Girls podcast, a weekly conversation about mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible versions of ourselves. |
| 0:23.7 | I'm your host, Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia. |
| 0:30.0 | For more information or to find a therapist in your area, visit our website at Therapy for Blackgirls.com. While I hope you love listening to |
| 0:40.4 | and learning from the podcast, it is not meant to be a substitute for a relationship with a licensed |
| 0:47.1 | mental health professional. Hey, y'all. |
| 0:56.8 | Thanks so much for joining me for session 452 over the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. |
| 1:01.7 | We'll get right into our conversation after a word from our sponsors. |
| 1:12.5 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 1:14.6 | Guaranteed human. |
| 1:22.8 | Where were you when the is having a boyfriend embarrassing now article dropped? |
| 1:34.5 | Late last year when the piece came out, it immediately took internet discourse by storm and had a lot of people in heterosexual relationships questioning and taking a deeper look into their relationships. |
| 1:41.6 | The piece pushed a lot of us to ask ourselves, what does it actually look like to publicly claim my partner? |
| 1:44.8 | I'm excited to welcome the woman behind the article, |
| 1:48.6 | London-based writer and digital content producer Shantay Joseph, |
| 1:52.8 | whose nuanced commentary on culture had all of us in quite a tizzy. |
| 1:56.9 | Today, we'll unpack the realities of dating in the digital age and how women are redefining partnership as society shifts further away from patriarchy. |
| 2:02.5 | If something resonates with you while enjoying our conversation, |
| 2:05.9 | please share with us on social media using the hashtag TBG in session. |
| 2:10.4 | Or join us over in our Patreon to talk more about the episode. |
| 2:14.3 | You can join us at community.com. |
| 2:15.8 | Here's our conversation. Here's our conversation. |
| 2:24.2 | Thank you so much for joining us today, Shanty. Thank you for having me. I'm so excited. |
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